It's Complicated

What is so complicated about in a relationship. I am really curious about the phase "It's complicated (TM)" in facebook and friendster.

Yes, in a relationship it can turn out to be complicated. It all depends on how you handle it loh. When things does not work out, you have to let go no matter how much you love him or her. Life has to move on, with or w/o him or her.Onces the feeling is gone, it is hard to have it back.

Someone told mi that complicated in this case can means either the person is having shakey relationship or just broke up and not ready to enter a new one... It's is true. I did not mean ther person did not put in effort. I think everyone did put in their best effort but the effort is not what the other party hope to receive.

Peopl are complicated and not relationship.

For a relationship to work out well. GUYS need to do it and handle it well... If guys are so not affirm, and do not know how to lead a girl... then what is he doing? He cant take care of himself and how can he take care of the girl?

GUYS out there, is you who leads the girl and not the other way round. You have to be very clear of what will you do for the girl.

I mean girl are usually quiet soft in relationship, we tend to fall in love with that guy we love and really fall deep. We have expectation on you and hope that you won't disappoint us. Girls are more easy going and able to endure any hardship de ok. So GUYS LEAD YOUR GIRL Properly....

Last but not least...i agree that "yuan" is important as it bring ppl together but whether any "fen4" will depend on your effort to create this miracle. Effort is a must to live up this relationship.

P/S: Educate mi on your personal experience on "It's Complicated", if you got it before.